“Marriage: A Mental Institution”—Achor Yusuf
When dysfunction becomes institutionalized as the norm, the process of healing is perceived by the affected community and its members as disruptive and dysfunctional. Presumptuousness is identified as a dysfunctional state of mind. This is precisely why marriage is advocated as a therapeutic remedy for developing a judicious mentality. Intriguingly, the ultimate goal of marriage is conceptualized as separation; if this is not naturally achieved by the couple, the law of divorce may be invoked to facilitate the process of correcting the deeply ingrained cognitive biases that led either partner into the marriage ab initio. This concept aligns with the guidance from one of the writers of the holy scriptures, who recommended marriage for those unable to control themselves or lacking in self-governance. Thus, marriage is positioned as a therapeutic crucible for confronting and overcoming the cognitive biases that underpin mental health dis-ease.
Authenticity, peace, and joy characterize healthy relationships where boundaries are clearly defined, and separation is recognized as an essential manifestation of loving relationships. It is only the optimally healthy, mentally, who can discern the nuances of genuine loving relationships and fully experience them. This discernment is pivotal, suggesting that a profound mental and emotional health is a prerequisite for navigating the complexities of love and marriage effectively.
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